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Product reviews for Sex and Love at Midlife
Kansas City Star
The keys to being a good lover, asserts sex therapist Bernie Zilbergeld, have little to do with age and everything to do with attitude and communication. In his book Sex & Love at Midlife: It's Better Than Ever(Crown House, $21.95), he makes a convincing case that a good sex life can make the years beyond 45 the most enriching.
Zilbergeld died before the book went to press.
He explodes myths about aging and sex, as well as excuses couples give for their lack of vibrant intimacy.
His research demonstrates that body changes and medical issues need not diminish anyone's capacity or enjoyment of sex and notes that older couples take more time during lovemaking and put their partner's pleasure above their own.
Connection in the bedroom, Zilbergeld says, flows out of intimacy in other aspects of the relationship.
Scorecards aren't necessary: 'Good sex has nothing do with performance ... Good sex has to do with expressing feelings and sharing pleasure and delight.
Zilbergeld died before the book went to press.
He explodes myths about aging and sex, as well as excuses couples give for their lack of vibrant intimacy.
His research demonstrates that body changes and medical issues need not diminish anyone's capacity or enjoyment of sex and notes that older couples take more time during lovemaking and put their partner's pleasure above their own.
Connection in the bedroom, Zilbergeld says, flows out of intimacy in other aspects of the relationship.
Scorecards aren't necessary: 'Good sex has nothing do with performance ... Good sex has to do with expressing feelings and sharing pleasure and delight.
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16/09/2005 01:00
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